Remember a few months back when I said that my dad's girlfriend called me, but my dad didn't? Guess who called me today? My dad, asking me to talk to his girlfriend!! He's left 2 messages telling me he loves me and misses me and "please talk to to Tanya.' What the fuck? WHY???? I don't know this woman and I have nothing to say!! What makes me more angry is that she called my Grammie and asked Grammie to call me and ask me to call her. Double WTF? Now my Grammie is upset with me b/c I said I didn't want to talk to her(the girlfriend). I know she only wants me to talk to her b/c it's the only time we get information on Dad. The thing is, I'm done with my parents. I only want information that he WANTS to give him. I'm not desperate enough for information to get it from his girlfriend.
I'm livid with all of them. With my father for not calling(ever!), with Tanya for thinking I have anything to say to her, and with my Grammie for making me feel bad about not wanting to talk to Tanya.
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I understand and would do the same thing you are doing!
You have every right to feel the way you do. Try not to let it overcome you, though, especially with Grammie. Try to put yourself in her shoes where it concerns your father. She doesn't talk to him either (right?), so she only wants to know how her son is. I'm not saying give in and talk to Tanya just because of that, but just to look at it from her perspective. When you've cooled off maybe Grammie will understand you're perspective on things too. Love you!
It's been a week now, are you more cooled off? I agree with Tara, don't be too mad at your Grammie. Dad and Tanya - sure, I understand that.
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